Patience and Perseverance {A lesson from my Grandpa}

Grandpa Esh

Grandpa Jonas Esh

“The strength of patience hangs on our capacity to believe that God is up to something good for us in all our delays and detours.” – John Piper

When he was thirty-six years old my Grandpa Jonas Esh was a husband, father to six children and Amish farmer and businessman. Life took a dramatic turn one day when he and a crew of workmen were painting the barns on Grandpa’s farm.

Grandpa's Farm

One of the barns on Grandpa’s Farm in Morgantown, PA.

Grandpa was on top of a tall ladder with a spray painter in hand. One of the men on the crew moved the paint truck, not realizing the paint hose was attached to the ladder Grandpa was on.

The ladder fell several stories and so did my Grandpa. His life changed forever. He suffered a broken spine, permanent nerve damage and became partially paralyzed in his legs. In addition, he lost use of his kidneys, forcing the need for dialysis treatments three times per week for the rest of his life.

Jonas Esh Family - early years

Grandpa and his family before the accident

I don’t know what life looked like for those first years after the accident. I can imagine it must have been incredibly difficult. I do know that Grandpa & Grandma were surrounded by a strong community, and that my uncles grew up quickly as they suddenly had to shoulder the responsibilities of the farm.

Grandpa & Grandma Esh & Family in the 70's

Grandpa & Grandma Esh & Family in the 70’s

I knew the older version of Grandpa. A man who was told he would never walk again, but proved everyone wrong. He had a limp but it failed to stop him. He didn’t use a cane, and even refused to use handicapped tags for his car, saying there were other people who needed the space more than he did. My Grandpa was unstoppable! People with less strength of character would have given up on life, but not Grandpa. Instead, he carried on – displaying incredible perseverance and tenacity.

Grandpa on the roof

Grandpa working on the roof

In spite of all his difficulties, Grandpa never displayed frustration or discontentment to us grandchildren. He was patient, kind, and a whole lot of fun to be with!

Fishing with Grandpa

Fishing with Grandpa

Grandpa and the wagon

Hauling pumpkins with Grandpa

Relaxing with Grandpa

Relaxing with Grandpa

Helping Grandpa

Helping Grandpa

Birthday Party with Grandpa

Birthday Party!

Grandpa Jonas combing my brother Jonas' hair

Grandpa Jonas combing my brother Jonas’s hair

I’m sure there are many things that helped cultivate perseverance and patience in his life, and Grandma was an incredible source of strength to him over the years. But I believe his deep trust in his Savior and his eternal perspective are what sustained Grandpa through all the difficulties he faced on a daily basis. Grandpa loved hymns, and one of his favorites was “Going Down the Valley”:

“We are going down the valley one by one,
When the labors of the weary day are done;
One by one, the cares of earth forever past,
We shall stand upon the river brink at last.” ~ Jessie Pounds

Grandpa & Grandma playing a game together

Grandpa & Grandma playing a game ~ I love this picture because it shows them working through something together, just as we always saw them do in life.

I sure do miss you Grandpa. I never got to see you run here on earth – those legs of yours wouldn’t allow you to do it. But I look forward to the day I see you in heaven, whole and complete, maybe even running by that river you loved to sing about. And thank you for teaching me what it means to persevere and be patient – no matter what obstacles and hardships come my way. I’m forever grateful to God for your example.

~ Justina Dee

 This is post number 19 of a 31 day series I’m blogging about my Amish family. Thanks so much for reading! Click here to read more.

 

 

 

 

3 thoughts on “Patience and Perseverance {A lesson from my Grandpa}

  1. Dear Justina,

    I have enjoyed reading your posts about your Amish family and how much they meant to you and taught you. I, too, am excited to be reunited with my Bampa in heaven!

    You have lots of pictures of your family. I thought that the Amish were against having photos taken. Perhaps there is a difference in which Order one belongs to?

    Again thank you for sharing your memories with us.

    Denise

    • Hi Denise, Thank you so much for reading the posts about my family! It sounds like you have special memories too. 🙂 You are correct: Old Order Amish do not allow photos of themselves. My Grussdaudy & Grussmommy were Old-Order, horse & buggy-driving Amish and I have very few photos of them. My Grandpa & Grandma were also Old Order Amish until later in life when they joined a New-Order Amish congregation – hence the special photos I’ve shared here, of them in their older years. Sadly, there are only a few precious pictures of them when they were young. But I’m grateful to have any at all! Blessings to you. <3

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